James is a pastor focused on social justice and equity, healing from religious trauma, and changing the course of “The Church” as we know it. Pedro is the Chief Creative Officer for a non-profit youth media organization.
Together this husband duo navigates a life centered around love, growth, and positive impact.
On a brisk winter night in New York City—January 15, 2016, to be exact—a southern lad named James headed to his usual after-work bar in Hell’s Kitchen, only to be stood up by a friend. Simultaneously, Pedro entered the same establishment on a mission for affordable tequila shots, aiming to salvage an awkward second date.
In the midst of this bustling city, fate orchestrated their brief exchange across a crowded bar, lasting only minutes but resulting in the exchange of phone numbers.
By March, they decided to move in together. Come June, the allure of the Blue Ridge Mountains drew them away from New York City to James's hometown of Roanoke, Virginia, anticipating a year of respite. That September, they returned to the city of their fateful meeting, marrying amidst the scenic beauty of Fort Tryon Park.
Fast forward to today. The Gemini/Aries couple united since 2016, thrives on the potential they envision building together. They reside in a downtown condo with three canine companions, dedicating their days to making a meaningful impact on the world.
James leads a small independent progressive Baptist church that focuses on social change, justice, and healing while addressing the damage the Church as an institution has created. Simultaneously, Pedro, after a successful career spanning media, fashion, and e-commerce, serves as the Chief Creative Officer at a nonprofit media organization, co-led by 14-24 year olds, with a national presence.
In this narrative of love and shared purpose, the story of James and Pedro unfolds, reminding us that within the whirlwind of a crowded bar, destinies can be woven, and from chance encounters, lifetimes of shared dreams can emerge.